Hmmm... my reflection on the guest speaker presentation

After reflecting over guest speaker Mo Garcia's "Find Your Passion, Live your Purpose" presentation,  I found that I enjoyed the speech and the speaker himself, but I don't know if I agree with what he was trying to get across. As a 32-year-old student, I found that a lot of what he was saying was most likely geared toward a younger generation student. "Finding your purpose" is definitely a hot topic for kids within the range of 18-25. The information and guidance he was relaying would help tremendously for most young adults. 

 As someone that has found my purpose, I found that what Mr. Garcia said, "money will follow passion" a bit shocking. This did NOT happen for me. I am a licensed massage therapist and have been one for the past 6 years. I love being a LMT. It's my passion. I am a firm believer in the power of massage and am a huge advocate for it. It's been my life, my world and what I love to inform to unaware individuals. Do I make money? Absolutely not. I'm broke all the time because it's not easy work. I have zero health insurance, zero benefits(time off,sick days) and have zero security for the future  I'm actually physically falling apart from minor injuries due to the job. Because of all of these things happening, I have gone back to school to perhaps find another "purpose" or to just get the education I need in order to find a career that I can establish so I can fulfill my massage passion.  

My Social Media Life, A.K.A My Life.

                  

It’s happening. It’s a new world out there. Have you seen it? Have you engaged in it? It’s a new era of

gadgets and gizmos a plenty. From Facebook, to Twitter, to Second Life, the age of Social Media is vast

upon us. I will tell you the story of my life in the social media world, plain and simple. I’ve got nothing to

hide and would love to share my journey along this path of the digital world because I am a digital

being. I live my life one refresh screen at a time. Some of it is going to be ugly, but most is quite

beautiful. I am a full- blown believer in the positive effects of social media and highly recommend that

maybe you should  be too. Through networking, learning new and amazing things and relationships

made, the digital world is astonishingly powerful and let me tell you why.

Let’s begin with why I network: my Bio. No, I’m not talking about my a/s/l, that’s internet speak for

“age, sex, location”, I’m talking about my biography in the world of possibilities; my social media bio. My

name is Rebecca. My name is also Iva2Die4 from the Ladies2Die4 Gaming community. You can find me

under Rebecca Winters, Plus Size Model as well. I am a gamer enthusiast, a part-time plus- size model

and also a Licensed Massage Therapist. I live a very busy life and my life is generously affected by social

media tools. I have two twitter accounts, two facebook accounts and one facebook fan page, an

Instagram account and an XboxLive profile. Those are my main accounts but I also have Google+, Model

Mayhem, Fitness Pal, and You Tube that I use periodically. I’m constantly networking and it works.

Many of the successes in my life have been obtained because of pure networking alone. For example,

my re-introduction into modeling was caused by a photographer noticing my comment on a famous

author’s facebook status. She liked my profile picture and noticed I lived near her. She sent me a

message and boom, my first photo shoot was scheduled. If it wasn’t for her, I would have never noticed

my courage, excitement and passion I have for modeling. “Social networking sites facilitate face-to-face

interaction. People use social media to network at in-person events and get to know people before

personal, business, and other meetings.” (Morgan, "5 Ways Social Media Can Facilitate Offline

Networking," www.sociableboost.com, May 8, 2012; web)₁. I do this on a daily basis and it is highly

effective. I meet new photographers/agents/key industry people, keep in contact with massage clients,

and become friends with gaming sponsors.  If it wasn’t for social networking, I’d be lost.  Naysayers

would say I could spend my time doing other things,“36% of people surveyed listed social networking

as the "biggest waste of time," above fantasy sports (25%), watching TV (23%), and shopping (9%)” (Mark

Dolliver, "Social Networking: A Waste of Time?," www.adweek.com, Oct. 7, 2010;web)₂ but I whole-heartedly disagree. I

enjoy the time I spend on social media sites but I do not ignore my other responsibilities in life either.

Moving on,I’ve leaned a lot from the digital media world. I use it in my everyday life. Most of my college

career is now online which is so relieving for someone like me who has a busy schedule. Most

of my classes are hybrid courses which enables me to learn from a classroom discussion while

doing most of the busy work at home. Also, I can learn so many tasks that would take forever if I didn’t

have access to the digital world. I could learn to plant a rose garden, find out how to do my Halloween

makeup as a zombie  or even educate myself on proper driving techniques in the snow. It’s just a click 

away and so easy to use.

One of the best situations ever to come from the digital world for me is the ability to build happy,

 successful relationships. I’ve met an abundant amount of people from all around the world. It’s

funny, because we as humans, do have the urge to connect with other people. Some of my nearest and

dearest friends I have met on the Xbox or from facebook. This includes my husband of whom I

met back in 2006 playing the first-person-shooter game Call of Duty 3.  We were gamers who became

friends and built a communicative, trusting relationship while using the social media tools of today. I

was kind of shocked but totally understood why “1/3 of female gamers met their partners online”

(“Digital Nation”http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/digitalnation/view/;web)₃. They say, “A

couple who games together, stays together “ and I agree 100%.  Some people would argue about the

dangers of meeting people online. For instance, you never can truly know who is on the other side of the

screen, whatever media outlet you choose. Shows like MTV’s Catfish seize the opportunity to capitalize

on this very thing. There are many individuals that have made up fake identities over social media for

 various and multiple reasons. Catfish is a show filming the story and meeting of these individuals of

which, most of the time, someone is horribly surprised. It’s scary to even think about really.                                

People are always telling me how lucky I am to have such a wonderful, loving husband and I couldn’t

agree more. I love that British boy of mine and am so thankful of all the social media outlets we used for

giving me the opportunity of meeting him; despite all the dangers. Needless to say, there was no

“catfish” scenario with us.

So as you can see, I am a huge fan of the social media age. I take advantage of what this digital era has

to offer. I believe it has helped me grow as an individual and is also a wonderful tool to use for school. I

have built successful relationships and friendships and learned so much about the world and different

cultures just by being online. It’s a new age out there indeed and it’s a beauty. You can study me, learn

from me, but try not to judge me; this world IS happening, whether you like it or not.

Social Media

Oh Where do I begin?? Unless you've been living under a rock somewhere, you know exactly what Social Media is and what it means. We're in a new era of technology and we communicate mostly though texts, blogs and status updates. Is that such a bad thing? There are countless pros and cons to the answer of this question but there are so many ups and downs that it's hard for me to even wrap my head around it. Again, where do I even begin?
I am living proof and an example of what it's like to be someone fully connected into the social media world. I spend my days networking for work or play and spend my nights either writing blogs for school (you see what I did there?) and/or on my Xbox playing with people of whom I met from around the world. Talk about being social! I live my life one refresh screen at a time. I feel lost when I'm not multitasking. If I focus on just one thing, I lose interest...point blank. It's my way of "staying focused" if you will.  That's one of the situations that needs to be addressed in research instead of social media and the negative affects it has on focus.
But, I may be fooling myself but maybe not. There are so many outcomes to the answer of the question "is it such a bad thing?",   it really depends on the individual and their ability to stay responsible and focused.

Reality TV? is it real(ly)?

Let's be honest here... What's real about reality TV nowadays? Ratings are majority of any show on the tele and let's face it, life gets mundane or on repeat at times. So what do they do?? The producers add a little somethin somethin here and there to spruce up "real" life a bit.
On top of the sprinkled additives, most shows are focused on topics that are a bit extreme and cater to the "prurient of human instincts" (p.94 Elements of Argument, Tenth Edition; text). Statistics show that it also is linked to lower intelligence....No, I'm kidding but when I watch a so called "reality" show on TV, that's how I feel. For the most part, I'm talking of shows like the Bachelor, Jersey Shore, whatever Housewives show,The Swan, The Kardashians....need I continue??  Oh, wait. Here's the icing on the cake:16 and Pregnant. Let's go ahead glamorize this so young girls get the idea that they might get rich if they get pregnant.
 I'm shaking my head here in disappointment but I do want to point out that there are some really informative reality shows out there. I'm sure they're rigged too but at least I don't feel as guilty for watching them. Shows like Deadliest Catch , Dirty Jobs and Treasure Hunters are somewhat informative of what people do in "real" life. I hope things change. I really do. I'm forever an optimist.  Hey, that can be a reality show..."Forever an Optimist", starring a hopeful, naive woman, that still has faith in humanity. Yeah, that would do well...